What is your response to the dilemma below, and why you decided the way you did?...Now try and identify their reasoning: was it egoism, ethical formalism, utilitarian, ethics of care, religion, or some other ethical system?

All your life you have played by the rules. During your senior year of college, you begin to make plans to graduate and begin your career. One Friday night, you were in a car with four other students heading home from a bar. Before you knew what happened the car was hit head on, and all of you were injured. You are paralyzed and face the rest of your life in a wheelchair. The driver was drunk and a classmate. The driver wants to see you to ask for forgiveness...Whats your response?